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I’m looking for a kind, respectful, emotionally grounded man who’s thoughtful and knows that real connection grows through trust, presence, and consistency. He's warm and affectionate. He is a good communicator and listener, not afraid of vulnerability. He makes me feel seen and safe to be myself. He values family, stability, and meaningful connections. He understands and respects my devotion to my son and is ready to be a good role model for him. He enjoys a balanced lifestyle, outdoors, quiet mornings with a coffee mug on a porch, meaningful routines, and making life feel a little lighter through humor and presence.
I’m introverted and thoughtful, I really value my alone time; it’s how I recharge and reflect. When I care about something (or someone), I’m all in—passionate and maybe a little stubborn, in the best way. My friends would say I’m laid-back, funny, supportive and respectful. I’m a good listener, reliable, and I genuinely care about the people in my life. I also can be silly, turn on my inner little girl and start a pillow fight, and sometimes it’s the best way to shake off a grumpy mood. I tend to rely on my head more than my heart—I like to think things through before making decisions, rather than reacting emotionally at the moment. But I definitely feel things deeply. I can cry over a powerful movie scene (like the last scene of Maid), a beautiful symphony, or a sunset in the mountains. So while I might not be overly emotional day-to-day, I’m definitely staying in touch with my emotions. My days start with my cat jumping into bed the second my alarm goes off, purring like crazy. I give myself a few extra minutes to wake up—usually counting backward from 27 (a random little habit I’ve had forever). Then it’s the usual morning routine: get ready, drop my son off at school, and head to work. After the workday, I like to recharge at the YMCA, then head home to cook dinner with my son. We usually eat while watching a movie—nothing fancy, but it’s honestly one of the best parts of my day.
For me, the most important things in a relationship are emotional safety, trust, and mutual respect. I want to be with someone who feels like home, where we can be fully ourselves, communicate openly (even when it’s hard), and support each other through the highs and lows. Chemistry is an important part too, but it is that steady and caring presence that makes love last.
I have an awesome 15-year-old son who is incredibly smart and sometimes too sarcastic for his age. Our relationship is pretty laid-back. I like being a chill mom (I hope he would agree on that) and we connect by watching movies together (he is into Tarantino lately), cooking together or playing a round of badminton.
It's the comfort and safety where you can be your authentic self without fear of judgment. It's a deep connection of souls and bodies. But also love is a verb, it's about actions, about choosing each other every day, rain or shine.
Loyalty means having someone who has your back, regardless of the circumstances.
My goal is simple: to find my best friend and true love. I’m ready to meet the right person to build a life with and invest in a deep, loyal relationship. I have a law degree and a corporate law practice from my life in Ukraine, but they are useless in the USA for me now. I work in a restaurant now, but I would rather be taking care of a family and our children than pursuing a career. I consider myself a traditional, loving wife,
I truly believe happiness lies inside me. It’s not something I chase externally; it's a practice of appreciating what I have and who I am right now.
I really appreciate people who are honest, kind, and just decent to others. I respect someone who does the right thing, even when it’s not the easiest option. Who is genuine, keeps their word, and treats people with empathy and respect.
A friend is someone who truly 'gets' you and is willing to show up when it matters. I don't have a huge social circle, but the few friends I do have are people I've known for years, and they've been there with me through the absolute best and worst.
Trust for me is to be able to safely share your flaws, fears, and insecurities without fearing judgment, criticism, or abandonment. Also it means to trust that your partner's intentions are always good, even when you disagree, and focus on solving the problem together, not winning the argument.
In my free time, I’m usually doing something to take care of myself—whether that’s yoga, having a good book, or watching podcasts about how our brains work (yes, I’m that person). I love getting outside for walks or hikes to clear my head. I also enjoy trying out new recipes with my son, or just watching a true crime…
I try to go to the YMCA around 4 times per week and usually attend yoga class, bar class, zumba dancing and also lap swimming.
